Thursday 12 April 2012
Wednesday 11 April 2012
..PeAcE..
I
have realized that majority of our
problem’s are linked with other people. Such as friends, boyfriends, girlfriends,
parents, siblings, friends of friends, strangers and even yourself. It so
happens that sometimes your trusted friend betrays you, sometimes you have
friends who you thought are friends end up gossiping and saying mean things
about you, strangers being rude without a reason, sometimes parents don’t
understand or siblings irritate… I
guess at one time or the other all of us must have had experienced the above
mentioned emotions. And then questions haunt us;
Why
is he/she so judgmental?
Why
is he/she trying to hurt me?
Why
is he/she so lazy? So selfish? So insensitive? Blah blah……WHYY? WHYYY?
But
the thing is, why do we hang on to offences? Why do we keep it when it’s just
gonna hurt you? Why so hard to let go? If you can’t wait for someone to do what’s
right, you go ahead and do it for yourself. Difficult people and situations
give you the opportunity to grow stronger. Remember that when people try to
offend you, it’s not necessary for you to take it. Sometimes
it’s best to just walk away to save yourself from frustration and hurt. Accept
that you cannot please everybody. The more you think of it, the more you complicate
it inside your head and make things worse. When you are happy inside, it will
shine outside. Don’t let those who live in dark drag you with them. Learn to
let go of negative feelings, and stop torturing yourself with resentment. What
other people think of you is definitely none of your business so make peace
with your past so that it won’t screw up your future. I had read somewhere that,”One
of the greatest mental freedoms is truly not caring what others think of you”.
And I think it’s so very true... Last but not the least be happy in front of
the people who don’t like you, “it kills them”…*_^…
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